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14 Things Successful People Do In The Last 10 Minutes Of The Workday

"How you finish the workday is very important," says Michael Kerr, an international business speaker and author of "You Can't Be Serious! Putting Humor to Work."

Below are the 14 things successful people do in the last 10 minutes of workday.

1. They update their to-do lists.

Successful professionals always keep an eye on their ever-changing to-do lists, explains Lynn Taylor, a national workplace expert and the author of "Tame Your Terrible Office Tyrant: How to Manage Childish Boss Behaviour and Thrive in Your Job." But the last 10 minutes is when they also check their final progress against that day's objectives," she says. "They revise their final list accordingly while in the moment, rather than abruptly leave and hoping they'll remember all the nuances of that day in the morning."

2. They organise their desk and desktop.

Your projects take much longer to complete when you're not organized. "Having an orderly desktop and desk will help you think more clearly and prioritize more effectively.
It'll also help you quickly find important documents when you need them," says Taylor. "File digital and hard copy documents for easier access and greater efficiency when you need them next."

3. They review what they achieved.

Taylor says in addition to focusing on what you still need to do, it's important to look back on what you've done.Kerr agrees. "Taking even one minute to review what you achieved can give you a sense of accomplishment, and on a particularly trying and busy day it can remind you that you got more done than you realized," he says. "Happiness research tells us that doing a simple routine like this, and taking the time to reflect on what you accomplished, is a key way to boost your overall level of happiness."

4. They take a moment and reflect back on the day.

Successful people not only think about the projects they've handled that day; they try to analyze when and why things went right and wrong. "Savvy professionals know that if they're not learning, they're not growing," says Taylor.

5. They vet 'urgent' communications.

You're down to the wire on your day, but the communications keep flowing; some urgent and some not — but all at the last minute. "This is when your time management skills are put to the test," says Taylor. "Successful people are able to decide what requires a response and what can wait."You want to defer long conversations that are sensitive until you and your colleague are at your best: in the morning. "Consider a response that suggests the discussion be held at a specific time the next day," she says. "Otherwise, the matter could last well into the evening when your mutual energy is low and you feel rushed. This deferral also gives you overnight to step back and think through your immediate reaction."

6. They stay focused.

"This is a classic time when your mind can drift," Taylor explains. "Typically, you're not as sharp at the end of the day." Try not to allow yourself to get distracted or caught up in non-work related activities at the very end of the day.

7. They determine their primary goals for tomorrow.

Successful people have a list of items ready for the morning, and they identify their primary objectives for the following day. "You may have two or three of them that are top of mind, but commit them to writing so you have a core foundation to work from the next morning," says Taylor. "The more you can get everything down on paper that is swirling through your mind, the more likely it is you'll be able to focus on the rest of your life with a clear head and be prepared and ready to go the following day," adds Kerr.

8. They let colleagues know how accessible they'll be between now and the morning.

The most successful people take a minute to determine how accessible they can and need to be between now and the following day, and then they communicate that to whoever needs to know. "Are you going 'completely dark' with absolutely no contact with your office via text, email, or phone? Or are certain exceptions being made?" Kerr asks. "This will change day to day, and there's not necessarily one right answer. The most important question to ask yourself is, 'What mix of contact/accessibility will allow me the greatest peace of mind during my off hours?'

9. They review their schedule for the next morning.

There's no worse way to start your day than arriving at the office and learning you have a big meeting in five minutes. "Successful people know to review their schedule and plan for the following day — and most importantly, visualize how the day will unfold," Kerr says. This will allow you to go into the next workday feeling better prepared, more confident, and less stressed.

10. They don't leave people hanging.

How terrible would you feel if you found out a co-worker waited around all night for you to send that file you promised, only to eventually realize you've already left for the day, and that file probably isn't coming? Successful people don't always accomplish everything they planned to, or respond to every email they said they would — but they do at least let others know that they weren't able to get to the task, or make the decision, or respond to their email today, and they usually provide a status update, as well.

11. They say thank you to someone.

Great workplaces are built on a foundation of gratitude and recognition. "Creating a habit around thanking someone at the end of your workday is an incredibly effective way to boost your own happiness level and allow yourself and others to leave on a high note," says Kerr.

12. They say their goodbyes.

A friendly "goodnight" is highly underestimated and requires very little effort. "It reminds your boss and team that you are a human being, not just a colleague," Taylor says. It also gives your coworkers a heads up that you're leaving for the day.

13. They leave on a positive note.

Before you head out, give yourself a psychological boost by smiling, Taylor recommends. "It will prepare you to exude a more upbeat vibe as you check out with your coworkers." Successful leaders leave a good impression at the day's end, as that's the demeanor that sticks until the next morning.

14. They actually leave.

Successful people avoid the temptation to linger. They know how important work-life balance is, so they try to leave the office at a decent hour. "Staying around for no good reason will limit your level of energy and success when you need it tomorrow," Taylor explains.

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Indian student shot dead in the US for refusing to give up his iPhone

A 23-year-old engineering graduate from Kushaiguda, who was pursuing a master's degree in Information Technology at Atlantis University in Miami, was shot dead by unidentified persons in front of his apartment in Miami on Sunday.

The family of the victim, Ila Sai Kiran, stays at Parimala Nagar in Kushaiguda on the outskirts of Hyderabad. At around 3.30am, some family friends delivered the terrible news to Sai Kiran's father Srihari Goud.

"I was told that the incident happened while Sai Kiran was standing in front of his apartment and talking over the phone to his friend Srikanth (also in the US). Some unidentified persons came to him and asked for his iPhone. When Kiran refused to give the phone, they shot him," Srihari Goud told TOI.

After the incident, Kiran's flatmates called 911 and police reached the spot. An ambulance also arrived and Kiran was declared dead on arrival at the nearby hospital, Shravan said.His family is in contact with Telangana secretariat officials and the Telugu Associations’ representatives in the US.

"US embassy has confirmed the incident and visa arrangements are being made for the family members," Malkajgiri DCP R Rama Rajeswari said.

Credit: India Times

Patience Ozokwor's picture used to market church crusafe

The trend of from movie location to the pulpit started with veteran actress Liz Benson, subsequently followed by Eucharia Anunobi, then recently Nigeriafilms.com, spotted another Nollywood Actress Patience Ozokwor on a church crusade poster, getting ready to preach on 'Operation Carry Your Miracle'.

Those who know the star actress well are of the opinion that she was not invited to preach but to serve as a form of marketing to garner attendance for the Port Harcourt-based church, others argue that there's nothing wrong if Mama G, as she's fondly called mounts the pulpit to win souls for Christ.

Patience Ozokwor is well known for her evil and wicked roles in the Nollywood movies.

CHEATING HUBBY SCANDAL: VENITA AKPOFURE, SENDS CONSOLATION MESSAGE TO TOKE MAKINWA

What started as a mere speculation is turning out to be real, as some of Toke Makinwa's colleagues have been pouring in their consolation messages to her, giving her strength and hope to remain strong and lively.

Popular video vixen turned actress, Venita Akpofure, who recently welcomed a cute baby with her long time boyfriend, reached out to Toke via her Instagram post.

"The strength of a woman is not measured by the impact that all her hardships in life have had on her; but the strength of a woman is measured by the extent of her refusal to allow those hardships to dictate her and who she becomes. I recall a phone call I made earlier to you this year. I celebrate you.

You are a diamond, you cannot be broken. #puremuscle ?? cc @tokemakinwa #TagStaGram #simplybecause #femaleempowerment #growth #support #love #photooftheday #selfie #amazing #igers #picoftheday #instadaily #iphoneonly #bestoftheday #webstagram", she captioned one of Toke's pictures she posted a while ago.

Meanwhile, the embattled Radio big girl, has remained mute on the speculation that has gone viral. Instead she keeps posting new pictures of herself on Instagram but some of her fans who know her very well could spot tears and pains in her eyes, as she battles to remain focused.

ARTISTES LEAVE ME AFTER 2 YEARS -OLAMIDE

Sensational Nigerian rapper, Olamide, who has stressed that he is in no competition with anybody, has reacted to rumours concerning artistes under his Yahoo Boy No Laptop (YBNL) Records. He also reacted to issues concerning his style of music.

Olamide warned that he should not be compared with late rapper, Dagrin. Some people have claimed that Dagrin’s death pave way for Olamide’s success.

The rapper also disclosed that YBNL only sign artistes on a two-year deal, after which they leave. He explained that YBNL is not a music label per se, but a movement, where young artistes are given platform to success and then move on with their careers elsewhere.

“Saying Kesh or Viktoh or anyone else is going to leave me is kind of shitty. I want these guys to be great, not to be slaves or dependent,” Olamide said.

“All the guys I signed just (do) two years contract and when they are independent, my prayer is for them not to sign any deal with a record label (again),” he added.

INTIMATE PICTURE OF TOKE MAKINWA’S HUBBY AND PREGNANT MISTRESS

It is no longer news that the 18-month-old marriage of a popular Nigerian media personality, Toke Makinwa to her fitness expert husband, Maje Ayida is presently going through crisis.

It was reported that Maje impregnated his former girlfriend, Anita Solomon, who is said to be in the UK at the moment to have their baby.

It was gathered that the woman behind the drama is a lawyer, who is  half-Lebanese and half-Nigerian from Cross River State. Maje has reportedly been dating the lady for 8 years. For those who may not know, Maje and Toke dated for about 12 years before getting married in 2013.

Insiders alleged that Maje opened a classy beauty salon for Anita in Calabar, her hometown and that he also sponsored her trip to the UK.

According to grapevines, Anita loves exercises and she found a good instructor in Maje, who is a fitness trainer. We will keep you updated as the drama continues to unfold.